Whats with all the Miley Hatin´?

Its not fashion or beauty based and I know I've not posted lately but this has been bugging the crap out of me,so I'd like to get it out there and hopefully think that Miley might see this(who am I kidding?) and know we're not all screaming "how can my children grow up to be good people when this exists!?"
I can be accused of being many things,lazy,ditsy,messy.But one thing I've never been accused of is being a miley cyrus fan.I never bought into the Disney channel or Disney in general(oh boy meets world,how you have changed me).But I have to say I like her new song,it's catchy and I don't feel guilty for liking it like most of her songs.Why?Because it's not s ok me scrappy party tune that you'll hear in Oceana and dance along to because it's catchy but probably never listen to again.Wrecking ball is something I would put on my iPod.I'm basing this on the song,the video is good and has some bearing on the song,God knows I love Terry Richardson.But I don't think miley can get upset about people com ppl claiming about the nudity and not taking it in context with the song and the soul bearingness(according to my kindle thats actually a word,who knew?),she should now people are going to take the nudity in context with her can performance and go "see?look what an immoral little slut she is.what if my children saw?"(don't even get me started on that,when I was a kid I was naked a tonne more than miley.It's not kids that would be horrified with nudity,it's teenagers,with their crazy hormones and awkward boners.It should be what if my teenager saw?).I think the video could have been done better,even if it kept the nudity but took out the sexual sledgehammer and chain licking.
  However one of the things that endeared me these days,is,that even though she's being young and possibly doing drugs and getting nakey,she made a song like wrecking ball.Which is honest and Frank,she seems to have acknowledged that she has grown up in the spotlight,and we have watched her every move like a real life Truman show.And with this acknowledgment she has given us insight into what's going on in her head during this difficult time.So I ask you,don't hate Miley for expressing her sexuality when you are hoisting her high as a role model for your children to live by,that is too much responsibility for someone so young ,show her a little understanding.Because she is a human being first and a public figure second.